✨ Create your account
Create an account with your name, email, and a strong password. In a paid production setup, use the purchaser-specific Access Code sent after verified payment.
Simple User Guide
A simple, practical guide for using relationship insight without turning people into labels.
🧪 Start with your own relationship style
Answer all 50 statements based on how you usually behave across important relationships. The result describes tendencies, not identity, diagnosis, or worth.
📘 Read your operating manual
Review how you may handle difference, follow-through, connection, empathy/directness, and repair. Treat every insight as a hypothesis to compare with real behavior.
🗺️ Map yourself by context
You may behave differently with a partner, parent, sibling, friend, coworker, or under stress. Save context maps as your understanding changes.
👤 Add relationship profiles carefully
Use self-report or transparent discussion where possible. If the profile is your own perception, treat it as such. Never infer diagnoses, trauma, or hidden motives.
🧭 Explore dynamics
Compare preferences and identify possible strengths or friction. The dynamics index is a reflection aid—not a compatibility score or prediction of success.
🤝 Build an agreement
Make communication, time, money, responsibilities, privacy, personal space, conflict repair, and review dates explicit where relevant.
💓 Run a relationship pulse
Reflect on emotional safety, clarity, trust, voice, sustainable connection, and repair. Pick one low area and one observable behavior to try.
✨ Use the 12 premium labs
Work on communication, conversations, conflict, compromise, expectations, trust, new phases, life changes, family/group dynamics, difficult conversations, boundaries, and connection.
📚 Learn from 1,000 cases
Filter by category, difficulty, and USA versus EU/Global. View Only keeps the source case unchanged. Save As creates your own editable plan.
💾 Edit your work
My Editable Work stores coaching outputs, case plans, agreements, pulses, and private notes. Rename, revise, or delete items when they no longer help.
🌙 Use accessibility controls
Switch between light and dark teal-green modes. Read, Pause, Continue, and Stop use browser speech synthesis when available. Decorative emojis are removed from spoken text.
📄 Export carefully
Reports can export your self-reflection profile, relationship-dynamics data, and case-library index. Review exports before sharing because they may contain private information about other people.
🛡️ Know the limits
This app does not provide therapy, diagnosis, crisis intervention, legal advice, medical advice, or a scientific compatibility determination. It cannot determine whether a relationship is safe.
🚨 Prioritize safety
Do not use communication tools or personality explanations to excuse abuse, coercive control, stalking, threats, or violence. If you are in immediate danger, contact local emergency services or an appropriate qualified support service.
🔁 Use a small improvement loop
Pick one friction → describe observable behavior → clarify need → use one lab → try one change → review evidence → update your agreement or plan.
💡 A useful weekly routine
Spend 15 minutes on one real relationship issue. Use one lab, choose one behavior to try, and review what actually changed the following week.